I don't understand why, when someone is trying to explain a situation, they always only give up the details that make them look good or at least not look bad. I've always found that if you spill both sides and include everything you did wrong that whoever is listening reacts better. They are more willing to help or just listen if you are willing to admit that you screwed up.
A friend is having a spat with her ex and neither of them claim to have done anything wrong. I know that's not true because I have seen some things that they have done to each other that just aren't nice. Neither individual has committed any major social crime so, for me at least, it doesn't matter who claims what. I trust my friend and that is enough for me to stand by her.
Just be an adult and take responsibility for your actions. It will make you look better in the long run and you will feel better about yourself. Character is hard to hide.
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